Assalamualaikum readers,
I'm in my Kampung now. Last Thursday i went to the clinic and was diagnosed with High Blood Pressure. It reads 169/98 hows that? the Doctor gave me MC and i took a leave and head straight back to my hometown. Mom was worried, so is dad. Macam2 petua diorang suh i amal, makan etc. They even brought me to an Ion Therapy by Water session. It wonders me... i'm going there again tomorrow. That will be another post ok.
The most major change is that i received a call from the Landlord in Shah Alam that they need us to vacate the house end of December. This was no surprise to us. She told us earlier but we asked for January 14 instead but i guess she had accepted a deal on the house. I need to get a house. Fast. Movers, packing etc. My budget lari sudah... huhu...
Plus, this is my first trip home after almost 1 month from my E-Day the ther day. The only time me and mum discussed face to face. Kalu tak always ada misunderstanding via phone and smsses. Nikah pans will run as planned. InsyaAllah. 60% are completed. But, the tricky part is the reception in Shah Alam. I gueesed mum had been listening to Ustaz Azhar Udrus and a few other motivators for parents of the bride and groom. She and dad thought our reception in Shah Alam was too grand and big for us. Wasting kata mama... that's her fav words since Nadia's wedding lagi. So.... there might be major changes to ur reception plan. I had to see and discuss my Enchek Tunang and family first. Hopeflly whatever the new plan will be... hope it's smooth sailing, not a burden to anyone and ease our life after ceremony.
Hmm... No wonder my BP gone peaks! Huhu... mana mana lah... there will always come this part where you will just let what goes by goes by... apa apa lah.. whatever lah.. to some extend.. i would say.. "can i have just the nikah ceremony and not the reception i.e walimatul urus?". I'm inviting my family and relatives and neighbours. I will tell friends of our wedding. I will post up pictures of the ceremony in the blog. So the purpose of teling the world that we are a married halal and legal newly wed couple is done. Cuma org mungkin kata kami ni... selfish la kan... and one once said to me "Depa bayar ka duit sewa umah, keta, makan pakai hang leaih kawen? Depa bayaq ka uit caterer, dewan mak andam etc tu?"... and me and enchek tunang are stuck... biorlah. apa yang mampu je lah.. mampu memuaskan hati mak bapak kami. Itu yang penting... syurga kami asih kat mak bapak selagi akad belum dijab kabulkan. Betul tak... Haiyoh friends.. i really need advise.
Ok. Done with the ramblings.. until then. Have a great weekend!
XOXO
Anne
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