2013 UPDATES! WAY TOO LATE!!

Assalamualaikum and Hello friends,

It's November 2013 and my last update was exactly the same month last year... hahaha... been so busy and neglected my blog. I am so so so very sorry. Ok. Make it simple...

January 2013 

I was working in Putrajaya. I met someone. I opened my mind... let's just try. I was working like hell and i was travelling to and fro from Shah Alam to Putrajaya everyday of my working day. I had no time and was too exhausted to go out on a date or even a lunch or dinner. 

February 2013

I was shocked with the Transfer Orders we had. I was transferred to Alor Setar, Kedah efective on 1.3.2013.  I had 1 month. Went to courses. Finished up my assignments here in Putrajaya. Went to ANuar Zain's Concert at Stadium Shah Alam with the guy who really love Anuar Zain and tried very hard to impress me since last year. He's the only guy who remembered by birthday. The other guy, who everyone thought we were dating.. seems not to care less.. I celebrated my birthday on the 18th with my housemates, kak Murni, Farah and Edayu with a piece of cake lit with  candle exactly at 12 stroke. The guy called and wished me and talked and talked and talked. The other guy wished me HB on the 28th... which he did every year. 

March 2013

I was alone, packed and drove myself to Alor Setar on a weekend to report myself for duty. Arrived late at night. Mom and dad were already there at the hotel. We looked and called in for a room to rent near the Office. Bargained and had a great deal. Bought myself a bed, a mirror closet, carpets and stuffs. Settled within a day. Met my 2 housemates and we get in well alright. With life being new and busy, the guy was persistent enough to call and sms me almost everyday of the day and week. While the other guy... hmmm... 1 sms every 4 days, if i fail to count. He's such a dear friend of mine. 

April 2013

Worked. Met friends but no social life. My time spent in Shah Alam almost every weekend. I drove, i flew, i took buses. I had the opportunity to have a holiday in Langkawi. It was fun and it was memorable. But it was exhausting. 

May 2013

I was asked to be the MC of a dinner function at my office, managed and basically organised the event. Surprisingly, after all these years, the dinner event was their first to be held. So you can imagine the chaos and planning you have to do. Gladly, it all went well. 

June 2013

I was the escort officer to the Annual Sport Carnival in Pahang for our Department. I had to join and replace a member in the volleyball team my chance. I stayed in a hotel, preferred to the hostels they provided.. plus i initially was the escort officer so i was not entitle to stay at the hostel (thank god.. hahaha). At that time, i had a self crisis about the guy and the other guy. I'm not sure and i can make up my mind. The guy was there at the Carnival and so is the other guy. But the guy was the most seen and annoying person of all times when i was there. He was everywhere and i ignored him to the max. The other guy seems to be there but as always seems not to be there for me... so, he's just invisible as always. Had my heart pity to the guy since i was evading him every time he approaches. I even told my friend that he's an extreme admirer of mine. Huhu sian dia. But i have to be firm with my heart before i could decide. The month went blank. I went for a trip to Jakarta with Ms. F. My last trip with her maybe... huhu

July 2013

I travelled every week to Shah Alam. Had tough days deciding. The other guy went for an overseas trip and bought me souvenirs... that, after i reminded him and after i got to know that he went. I think it was just a mere courtesy to give me stuffs. The guy, persistently persuaded me, went to my friends, ask for favours etc. I seek guidance from Allah swt. He showed me... and i trust His signs. To make sure, i asked the other guy of any future plans together or if any feelings not told. He only replied, such a serious Q to ask. Kept silent and send a "Hi, msk apa mlm ni?" after a week or so. And you should imagine what happened during that week or so, what the guy did, without fail and without a single day not my phone was silent from his calls and smses. He proposed. Oh i had my chance crossing borders and went to Hatyai for 2 days 1 night. Spent well and experienced well. It was fun. 

August 2013

It was fasting month. I had my call from Him again of the same light He showed earlier, and i was sure of my choice. I was still going to and fro from Shah Alam and Alor Setar. I went back to break fast with my family and conveyed the guy's intention. I seek their permission. It was a shock to them because they thought i was with the other guy. They wish to seek his opinion before accepting the marriage proposals... you guys can expect the answer. No replies. It was a hard try for the guy to be accepted by my family as he was compared to the other guy most of the time. But he was strong and he kept his promises. 

September 2013

Celebrated Eid with my family in Kota Bharu. Nothing much and we had a good hari raya that year. But i was busy with work in Alor Setar and had little time to spend. Mom was admitted in Hospital for a week for Pneumonia but was later discharged and well recovered. I lost my phone 019 at KT hospital and i later again lost my another phone (the one i took pictures, whatsapp etc) when some one force entry into my house during maghrib. Oh i saw him and i let him be... i will not jeopardise my life for a phone that i can replace later.

October 2013

I thought it was the most busiest month of all. I exhausted my annual leave. I was busy preparing for Aidil Adha celebration. On the 3rd Eid Adha, the guy's family came all over from Batu Pahat and Kuala Lumpur to officially ask my father for my hand in marriage, the Malay Adat way and Islamic way of telling other guys out there that i was taken and no one can ever try to near me. So that's the biggest news: I'M ENGAGED! Alhamdulillah. It was a quick ceremony and i was cleaning the pots and pans one hour after the ceremony. hahaha... Days later, we went for the Pre-Wedding Course at the National Mosque KL and i went back to Alor Setar, where my work awaits. Huhu... T_T

November 2013... 

That'll be a new entry... Where the Journey Begins.